Dating Sites, Could Someone Explain This To Me?

Now that I have spent the last 12 hours figuring out all this technical stuff.....I'm tired! But while doing this and listening to the activities around my house my new blog idea smacked me in the head.....

Dating Sites, while these can be very helpful to some, others find they have wasted time creating impressive profiles with the ill conceived idea of finding eternal happiness with their soul mate. I would like to know how many people were successful.

The reason I ask this question is only because after a 1 1/2 years of my dazzling yet serine profile being posted on a popular personals site, I have not followed through with one connection. Don't get me wrong there are many attractive men on these sites and I hope that some of them are sincere with their intentions but you would think eventually new profiles would emerge and the veterans would have found a home by now. I say this only because I have spent many hours logging the suitors that graze these sites daily.

I have been separated for almost two years, shortly after leaving my husband a friend took it upon herself to start my profile, I didn't complain because being the fun loving prankster I am had previously thrown her into several unexpected situations. So I decided let's just sit back and watch for a while, and it didn't take long, within two weeks I had over 170 views and about 85 messages; cool huh? Well I thought so until I started politely replying, I was raised to be polite and not to offend, but it only took chatting with about 5 possible candidates before I realized I was a side of beef being paraded at an auction! Within minutes men were asking for more photos, ready to meet and even began discussing very intimate, sometimes vulgar, encounters. OMG, all I could do was laugh and somehow find a way to ease out of this conversation hoping it was.... And now, after almost two years, I can still go on this site and find the same men (maybe a couple of new candidates) logging on everyday in search of what..... Their happily ever after!

So please, if someone can explain to me why the same people are still "looking for love" after two years in the same place it will be appreciated.

Because, my conclusions are frightening:

1. They are just a bunch of freaks looking for a sure thing, which would make me - OMG don't even want to think about that...........
2. There is something wrong with everyone else in the world that makes them unfit for these promising mates
3. There is something terribly wrong with them, that keeps them searching for someone to tolerate them

Please keep in mind, this is men and woman alike on these sites; I just don't see how a meaningful relationship starts with meaningless sex! LOL

Maybe it's just me, and it probably is because I have not found my eternal happiness, but I haven't been looking for it either. I know in time God will fill my life with more than I will be able to handle!

For all who are whole heartedly searching for true love and your happily ever after, I wish you the best.
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